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How do I ask for a reference from an old boss?

You will learn to ask ChatGPT to write a kind note requesting a reference.

3 min read Always free

Reaching out to an old boss can feel awkward. That feeling is normal. Most people feel it too.

But most bosses are glad to help someone who did good work. A kind, clear note makes it easy for them to say yes.

ChatGPT can write that note for you. You share a few details. It gives you a warm message you can send.

Try this
  1. Tell ChatGPT who you worked for and when.
  2. Say what job you are applying for now.
  3. Ask for a short, polite note requesting a reference.
  4. Make it easy by offering to share more details if needed.
A message you can copy

Help me write a short, friendly message to a former boss named [name]. I worked there as [your old job]. I am applying for [new job] and would love to ask if they would be a reference for me.

Paste it into ChatGPT, then change the words in brackets to fit you. It opens in a new tab, so you will not lose this page.

Buddy, your friendly guide
Buddy says

Give them an easy way out, like saying 'no pressure at all.' Kindness goes far.

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